But I've learned not to make things worse by suggesting that she's PMSing. If a guy feels like he does not deserve a woman or is not good enough for her, he will become jealous easily and worried that he's going to lose her to another guy.On the other hand, I admit that I have tried to make girls I'm interested in jealous on purpose before.We hate when you try too hard to be one of the guys. My solution is to try to get a place by the beach and do it out on the porch where you can see and hear the waves: Sex at the beach, but not on the beach. Sometimes, I just act like they have no chance, even though I might like them.
Holding someone close in bed also makes you feel very secure with one another and the relationship. Men are taught that confidence solves just about anything.
You can be making a total mistake, but as long as you're confident, it will turn out okay.
When I just throw it all out the window and dismiss it as "crazy," it makes it easier to deal.
We don't really think women are insane, we just say it so we can be done thinking about their antics and move on. Guys are happy to help out their girlfriends with emotional issues.
I think the old adage "Girls mature faster than boys" comes into play here.