Now, I’m going to give you a viewpoint that many guys think about and fear.
In fact, this fear makes many guys avoid marriage like the plague…
All the nice parts of marriage sound nice to me, but the prospect of divorce sounds awful…
I have seen men destroyed by it (not to say women aren’t too, I guess I’ve just met more divorced men in my work with guys…) In many cases, when a guy gets married, he’s doing it for you.
In fact, that’s the point of the prenup: It gives both of you the ability to relax and never have to worry about anything ending horribly if things don’t work out.
Also, I think it would be in your best interest to relax and wait for him to propose marriage to you. Aside from him probably feeling insulted by the gesture, can you imagine if he did go for it?
Cognitive scientist and public intellectual Steven Pinker urges us to step back from the gory headlines and prophecies of doom, and instead, follow the data: In seventy-five jaw-dropping graphs, Pinker shows that life, health, prosperity, safety, peace, knowledge, and happiness are on the rise.