Your German boyfriend will respect you for having your own view rather than be offended because you don’t agree with him. Learn about the world’s latest issue Germans are known for their smart and highly educated people.
Not that they don’t care, but men sees women can be perfectly well on their own.
Oh, and yes, women doesn’t has this privilege in public spaces – if you are the last person to board the bus, no one will offer their seat for you even if you are a pregnant women. Germans do not tell lie, even to their partner Every country has their own means to show “politeness”.
You can’t expect you boyfriend (who is still a collage student) to pay for your meals while he himself hasn’t has a steady income yet. Equality above everything Germans living with equality for men and women. German couples split the house rent evenly between men and women.
They also see each other as a strong and independent person, so you will rarely see a man opens the door for her woman.
While couples in both countries tend to split the bill between themselves, German men are okay with taking all the bills. If you happen to have a conservative mind, and your boyfriend is the modern ones, he may wonder why he should take all the bills.