For him, it was just another thing to know about his mom, to file with things like my being a writer, growing up in Connecticut, etc.But for me, it was an amazing experience of feeling like he was finally seeing a more complete picture of who I am. Even living in San Francisco, the assumption people make about me is that I'm straight." "I am a bi woman currently dating a bi man.
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Shortly before I married my husband, I finally left Christianity behind, for many reasons. I was finally able to think about who I really am and what I really believe without some old white guy telling me the 'right' answers and condemning me for any deviance. Part of this was learning that I'm not straight.
I realized that I was falling in love with one of my female friends (who is also bisexual).
'" "I think the weirdest thing for me isn't the judgment of other people (since I just pass for straight), but the idea of what could have been.
Just before I met my current dude (4.5 years and counting), I was trading messages with a gorgeous lady vegan baker.
' And I was like, ' Oh my good god, I am actually having this conversation over coffee and toddlers.' They were fine when I said, ' Um, actually...' but the whole experience was pretty invalidating.