These three strategies only succeed in pushing a man further away. Getting a guy to want to be more and more committed with you can be summed up in 2 simple steps…1.
In the rare case that one does work, the bottom line is that it’s an unnatural and forced way to get what you want. Create in a man the feeling that he’s better off being with you than being single, spending most of his time with his friends, or “sleeping around.”AND…2.
While giving your man an ultimatum will definitely get you an answer, when you put a guy on the spot like this, it usually won’t be the answer you want. Especially when it comes to a man’s often stubborn and unexplored emotions.
In fact, often times he doesn’t even know exactly what he’s feeling, because he hasn’t spent much, or any, time analyzing everything on an emotional level.
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