“The Loser” has permanent personality characteristics that create this damage.
These are characteristics that they accept simply as the way they are and not a problem or psychological difficulty.
I’ve been contacted for help by the friends and loved ones of people involved in relationships with Losers (controlling and/or abusive partners).
The loved ones want to understand the situation and ask for recommendations and guidance.
If our parent or parents have the characteristics listed in this article, our ability to function as a healthy adult may be hindered due to the dysfunctional family/parent model.